"You have found success not despite your struggles, but because of them"

 

Big 5 Personality Test

 

Big 5 Results

 

 

 

 

16 Personalities Test (Myers-Briggs)

16 Personalities Score

 

VIA Strengths Test (Top 6 Signature Strengths)

VIA Results

 

 

 At the top here I've included my results from some of my favourite self-awareness tests. I believe in the power of being open and vulnerable. So here I am, exposed in a tangible, objective manner. You can see what I am, and what I'm not.

 

Strengths: People Person. Outgoing and Friendly. Kind and Loving. Emotional Intelligence. Routine and Consistency.

Weaknesses: Discouraged when unable to help. Easily hurt. Struggle to be flexible and adventurous.

 

So you can see how I have my struggles to face, just like you do. I have discovered techniques and concepts to minimise my weaknesses and enhance my strengths, and it is that approach that I want to deliver to you all. Read on to find out about my full journey, and how I came to this understanding of myself and my mission.

 
 

My Story

When  I entered my teenage years, I was an unhappy young man who used binge eating as a coping mechanism. Eventually, at age 13, I weighed 17 stone. I continued to struggle throughout my teenage years with my body image and self-esteem. I was bullied and struggled to form relationships with others, especially romantically. At age 17, I had finally found a girlfriend, but I was beaten up in front of her by a group of four guys.

 

This event snapped something in me, and I started to become obsessed with exercise and food. I exercised compulsively and became fixated on what I ate, when I ate, and how much I ate. After being obese at 13, I moved across the spectrum as an early adult and developed a restrictive eating disorder, which I suffered with from the ages of 18-21.

 

During this period I also developed Depression. My life started to feel empty and meaningless. I was abusing caffeine and alcohol to bring some semblance of feeling to my life. At age 19, I started to wake up in the mornings, and wish I hadn't woken up at all.

 On New Year's Day 2013 I made the decision that I wasn't going to keep living my life this way. I changed my lifestyle and my mindset. I finally engaged with a lifelong dream of becoming an author, publishing my first novel at just 20 years old, and my second at age 21.

 

I served as Vice-President and President of the Glasgow University Psychology Society and successfully graduated. It was during this time that I really accelerated my interest in personal development: studying positive psychology and self-help as well as incorporating practices such as yoga and meditation into my life. In my final year, I realised that I could use the lessons I had learned from my hardships and this self-education to help and inspire others, so I resolved to set up my own business after graduation.

 

 

When I had finished my final exams, I received a letter from my Dad, telling me that he had terminal cancer, and only had a few months left to live. Just as I had overcome some difficult personal battles and experienced great personal growth, I confronted my biggest challenge of all.

 

My Dad was an amazing influence in my life, and that is why I have devoted a page of this website to him, and there you can find out all about the incredible man he was. Dad died just a month after my graduation, and I have never felt so much pain. At age 22, I had lost my greatest mentor and one of my best friends. 

 

However, from that pain, I gained renewed purpose and suddenly everything in my life gained a whole new perspective. I was given an insight into the fragility of life, and how important it is to chase our dreams and fulfill our potential in this lifetime. I wanted to carry on Dad’s teachings, and make him proud. I realised how important my new passion was, to create a life of love, to help others, to complete what I am meant to achieve in my life. That is what I have sought to do ever since.

 

In my work, I teach people the power of their story. I use my story as an example of what's possible. I highlight how we can turn our struggles into success. I would not be doing what I'm doing now if I hadn't faced all the challenges I have.

 

My work is essentially story-telling. I take people through a narrative of how they can change their lives. From my earliest years all I wanted to do was tell stories, now I am living that dream. My characters are Psychology and Personal Development. I create chapters based on knowledge and strategy. I empower people to become the hero of their story.

 

If you would like to change the script you've been living by, or you want to help others do so, then click one of the links below, and let's get started.

Book

Read about the three vital lessons I learned from the death of my Dad

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Speaking

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Coaching

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